Phot-o-Rama




I decided to get my camera out yesterday and take some pictures of the boys- particularly Arun as I haven’t had a chance to snap any of him lately and Nishad was feeling under the weather. My camera replacement for my D80 and new lens arrived about a week ago, so it was long over do for testing! We also picked-up a desk-top for my work at home. This enables me to take my lap top on-site for jobs, if need be. It’s one fast computer! I’m adjusting to a new keyboard…always feels funky the first few weeks.

I’m happy to report that Nishad is feeling a lot better. He hasn’t had a fever today. We even went to Maple Grove where we went to Borders. I let him pick out a few books; He selected a Curious George book (which he only knows as “Bunder“) and “Fish is Fish” by Leo Lionni. I let Nishad help pick out Jenesis‘ birthday gift (for this Saturday). We went to one of my favorite stores to browse, “Good Things” and then headed to Trader Joe’s for some grocery shopping. After we picked up our Chinese take out from P.F. Chang’s via request of Nishad, and headed home. Of course, we couldn’t avoid all the suits walking around with flags on their labels and police/security escorts. We were reading in Borders, sitting on the floor, when one of them popped his head around the corner and smiled, “That sounds like a nice book!” Why they were swarming like bees in Maple Grove is beyond me. However, I thought it was funny to see a plane flying above us with a banner that read, “Ron Paul: r EVOL ution” with ‘love’ flipped backwards and in red font.

After two days of staying home, I think Nishad really misses his school. I’m sure he’ll be well enough to attend tomorrow. We weren’t about to send him until he had a day of just recovery.

Overstayed Welcome, RNC!

I have always watched both the Democratic National Convention as well as the Republican National Convention. This year was no different. I was particularly interested being that it’s in my own back yard, so-to-say.

Regardless of who the next president or vice president is, they need to work with both sides of the isle and independents, the green party, etc. I was very put off by the mocking comments and hateful speeches that were aimed at not only at Obama and his party, but Democrats as a whole. The RNC was busy getting down and dirty, while the DNC continues to rise above.

As a democrat, I felt as though they were angry and hateful. If anything, us Dems should be angry after what the republicans have done to our country. But, we aren’t…anymore. Why? Because ‘hope’ is on the way. There is a light at the end of the tunnel.

Now, I don’t expect Obama to walk on water or perform any miracles. However, I do expect change. A change that far out weighs anything of Bush’s legacy.

I found it ironic that Gullini would mock the many ‘community organizers’ that work tirelessly in this country~ doing exactly what republicans don’t want the government to do. I also found the chanting of “Drill Baby, Now! Baby Drill, Now!” to be one step away from a gladiator appearing in a center ring, with a king poached above him ready to give the thumbs up or thumbs down signal while a hungry lion paces behind steel bars awaiting to enter the arena. Texas surely would have completed that picture with their hats if only they had a big BBQ spare rib hanging out of their mouths with a shot gun in their hand as they do a little barn-yard dance. Yee-haw! I don’t recall Michelle Obama snickering and smiling a cheap shots and jokes…ever, unlike Cindy Barbie Doll Mc Cain (Kelly coined that first!). Gullini also spoke about how no one mentioned certain words at the DNC because he thinks that they were afraid they were not politically correct and that they would offend people. Mr. Gullini, let me express to you that you offend me.

While the DNC was about unity~ across party lines, peace and respect, the RNC was about an Ax to grind. They are apparently very desperate. I couldn’t have been more disappointed. This year is the first year that I had to walk away and turn off the television. There is already enough mean people and things in the world. We don’t need more of the same old stuff.

24-Hr Rule

At the start of Nishad’s first full week of school, he caught a bug. Ashish dropped him off at 8:15AM and by the time I went to pick him up at 11:30AM, he had a fever of 100.1 (under the arm). His teacher said that she just couldn’t understand why he wasn’t himself. He sat in her lap and that’s when she felt how warm he was. Our little trooper. I’m sure it has to do with this crazy weather we’ve been having. That and the fact that he is now exposed to a whole new community.

While Nishad was at school today, I cleaned like I was never able to before. Arun and I had some great one-on-one time. I could tell he was looking for Nishad. He would crawl into the closest, crawl into the office, the bathroom, look up the stairs…

Speaking of stairs… We were all getting ready to have breakfast, when I said, “Where is Arun?” We heard faint little giggles of our happy camper, but we didn’t see him. We’ll he decided to take it upon his own to crawl up the flight of stairs by himself! We found him at the top, crawling between bedrooms, laughing and smiling. his chest was perched out like a little bird- he was very proud to show us that Nishad is not the only big boy in the house anymore! Ah!! ๐Ÿ™‚

Weekend OF LABOR




No, despite the odd dreams I’ve been having that I’m pregnant again, this is not labor pains… it’s Labor Day Weekend Labor– Work, Work and more Household Work! This is the weekend Ashish and I set aside to complete all of the projects in the house that have been waiting for us since baby Arun’s arrival. Hmn. Tomorrow is another day! Nishad’s comments definitely provide support and motivation for us though. I love when he tells us, “Momma, you’re working hard. You’re doing a good job. It looks really nice.” Have I mentioned that he even compliments me on my hair, make-up and outfits? “Momma, you look nice.” What a little man. ๐Ÿ™‚

Ashish did manage to clean and start staining the deck. We did a lot of relaxing though- which, we relished as we ordinarily don’t get to! Our neighbor’s grandson is visiting, so Nishad was in his glory with a pal right next door. They swam, played cars and yesterday they went on a wagon ride together. They were so cute together- holding hands and running into the pool.

We picked up a few items on Nishad’s shopping list for his classroom; 4 nanners, a dozen eggs and flowers. He also now has a big boy booster seat! We had to get an additional seat for him as Ashish will drop him off at school in the mornings on his way to work and Arun and I will pick him up.

His eye has been bothering Ashish and I. We thought we might be able to cancel surgery on the 11th, but it’s just not disappearing. To make matters worse, another bump is starting on the opposite eye now. I feel so bad for him. There is only so much patience for warm compresses a 2 year old can take. He’s so brave. At the store today he suddenly didn’t feel well. He got tired and started complaining to me. I picked him up a milk and a croissant thinking that the issue was hunger. We left quickly and by the time we came home, it was apparent our Nishad was not his typical self. Ashish thinks the heat got to him- even though he was merely outside just from the short walk from the car to the store. He hasn’t wanted to eat anything…though he did finally have a bit of dry cereal. We gave him Tylenol as a precaution as he was feeling warm. Hopefully, he’ll be good to go in the morning- little trooper! I bought some drops for my eyes as they are really irritated. Who knows? Allergies, or it could be something going around…
One small step for man, one giant step for Baby Arun! ha,ha. Arun took his first unsupported step! He did it twice. He hasn’t gotten over the one step though. As Nishad says, it’s “KA-BOOM” after the first step. He likes to walk pushing his choochoo train (that DOESN’T have an off switch) around the house though. Arun also made it down the step from the living room to the sunken kitchen all by himself! He’s added a few new words to his vernacular as well, “bed” and “baba.” He loves to move and groove- especially to music. I think he’s going to be musically inclined, like his big brother, Nishad. He *loves* to pull you close, hug and love on you! He’s such a snuggle bug!

Grocery Shopping Pains

The things I consumed as a child, I would never feed to my own children. My parents did the best they knew how with the information given at the time. I also believe our food was vastly different form today. Lucky for us that we know more now. Shame on me if I knowingly feed my children fast food and a plethora of soda, candy and sweets.

The more I learn, the more I’m discouraged at the direction of our food production in this country. Since the birth of our first born, Nishad, my trips to the grocery store have doubled in time. Why? Because I read the ingredients. My rule of thumb? The less ingredients, the better. The more local the product, the better.

We knew organic was better, however, when he was little didn’t know that much about it. So like any pro-active parents that want the best for their little ones, we researched the topic and drew our own conclusions. He’s been drinking organic milk ever since he made the switch at 12-months old.

Since our children were born we’ve made some changes in our diets that would directly influence our children’s diet and health. Our children are vegetarian. Ashish only eats fish. I eat chicken, turkey and fish. I haven’t consumed pork, lamb or beef in about 7 years. Ashish has been vegetarian since he was a child. Research states, it’s simply better for you. It’s also a very ‘green’ thing to do for our earth. If everyone were vegetarian, or at least cut out three ‘meat’ meals a week, we could tackle world hunger. Now that’s something to sink your teeth into! Do I miss ‘meat’ in the carnivore sense? Not really. Morning Star veggie bacon, sausage and crumblers are fantastic. In fact by substituting Morning Star products, I can make an excellent vegetarian chili and stuffed peppers – just like Mom’s, biscuits and gravy and a mean potato salad that tastes exactly like my Aunt Linda’s.

I also grew-up eating sugar-coated cereal and continued to do so in my adult years. My objects of affection (always at eye-level) in the cereal isle were Frosted Flakes, Coo-Coo Puff’s, Lucky Charm’s and my two favorites, Fruit Loop’s and Capt’n Crunch. As of last December, I shared with Ashish my decision to banish these cereals from our household as I didn’t want Nishad to start eating them.

Soda was never is short supply at our household. The brand of choice was Coke. I’m not sure when I had my first sip of coke, but surely, my love for sugary soft drinks began instantaneously. First generation “Happy Meal” kid that I was, milk wasn’t offered- coke was. We all know how much I patroned Mc D’s as a kid. I don’t blame my parents at all. How can I? It was marketed to them as a ‘perfect’ well-balanced meal. I feel like I have to spend the rest of my life detoxing from the wicked clown.

Mental check list: while at the grocery store avoid products with:
1. High Fructose Corn Syrup.
2. Partially Hydrogenated Oil or Shortening
3. Genetically Engineered Food

Dear Sugar, NOT Fructose,
Since January, I’ve been on a high fructose kick…as in kick it out of our diet! Which, if you every read a nutritional label on the back of your favorite foods, it’s difficult to do. I am constantly amazed at how much stuff contains fructose corn syrup. High-fructose corn syrup provides the sweet zing in everything from Coke, Pepsi and Snapple iced tea to Dannon yogurt and Chips Ahoy cookies. It also lurks in unexpected places, like Ritz crackers, Wonder bread, Wishbone ranch dressing and Campbell’s tomato soup. HFCS is linked to diabetes, obesity and heart disease.

The truth is that fructose and HFCS, as large-scale commercial sweeteners, didn’t exist 20 years ago. We all grew-up hearing about how ‘fructose’ came from fruit. Well, that’s not true today. It’s not only bad for you, it’s highly addictive. In addition, it manipulates hormones and chemicals in your brain that gives you a signal of when you are full. Mc D’s even puts it in their wonder burgers. I call them that as one can only wonder what exactly is in them- similar to their surprise chicken. We won’t even touch their coffee as if you are putting stuff in burgers, who knows what you are putting in the coffee. Besides, I can pay a little more at Caribou or Starbucks for a cup of Jo, but at least I know they are a bit more eco-friendly and participate in free trade…unlike Mc D’s or BK.

I’ll Pass on the Trans-Fat, thank you!
Well, you’re standing in the grocery isle finally holding a product that doesn’t have HFCS and you’re set, right? Mission accomplished. How Bush of you! Check to see if it contains a lethal trans-fat, that is literally like poison for your body- Partially hydrogenated oil. Don’t fall for the marketing trick of “Zero-Trans Fat” either- read the label for yourself. See, it’s harder than you think, isn’t it? Partially hydrogenated oil is found in many snack and convenience foods such as popcorn, cookies, crackers and cake, as well as in many fried food such as donuts and fast food places. This ingredient is relatively cheap for production, it has a long shelf-life, and its ability to be used as a substitute ingredient for other more costly ingredients is attractive to companies. Prior to the widespread use of partially hydrogenated soybean oil, companies and fast food places would use coconut oil and butter. However, due to the higher cost of these two ingredients, as well as their relatively short shelf-life which resulted spoiling food, a cheaper, longer-lasting ingredient was sought. Now that thereโ€™s more awareness, some corporations have changed the name of these trans fatty oils to mono-diglycerides.

Cancer, diabetes, heart disease, multiple sclerosis and allergies that can cause arthritis are all linked to hydrogenated oils, my friend. It also disables your body from properly absorbing good essential fatty acids (necessary to sustain healthy life) found largely in polyunsaturated oils. Instead of being absorbed and providing your body with what it needs to function properly, the essential fatty acids are eventually stored as fat cells, causing you to gain weight.

Every apple is the same.
Genetically engineered food is a touchy subject for me that I have a lot to learn about yet. I understand that before we were born, farmers were already busy splitting seeds and modifying plants to make stronger, more bountiful crops and harvests. However, I don’t think I’m ready to hand over our food production to a few big companies that weigh production and profit before the health of our children. I’m not sure I’m ready to consume animal genes in plants and vice versa. One also has to think about the impact on human health (allergens, antibiotic resistance, etc.). I can’t say that I fully support tampering with nature. At least label all genetically engineered food.

Food for PLU~
Here’s a little something I learned from Jeff Fox, former editor of Organic Gardening magazine. PLU codes are the codes you find on produce and fruit.

  • A five digit code that begins with the number 9 means it is completely organic.
  • A code that begins with the number 8 means it is genetically modified.
  • A four digit code means that it was grown the tradition, standard way with pesticides and chemicals- however, it is not genetically engineered.